Memorial
A memorial service is a gathering held after the funeral where family and loved ones come together to remember the deceased. The event can be held at parish premises, a restaurant, through a catering service or at home. The program and refreshments are planned according to the wishes of the deceased and the family.
Organising a memorial service requires practical decisions: choosing a venue, planning refreshments, putting together a program and sending invitations. Costs vary depending on the number of guests and catering. Below you will find detailed guides for all aspects of the memorial service as well as city-specific service information.
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Frequently asked questions
Is a memorial service mandatory?
No. A memorial service is voluntary but a common way to remember the deceased with loved ones after the funeral.
How much does a memorial service cost?
Costs depend on the number of guests and catering. Coffee service for 50 people typically costs €300–800.
What is a typical memorial service program?
Typically coffee and refreshments, short speeches or words of remembrance and informal reminiscing. The program is tailored to the family's wishes.