Secular Funeral

A secular funeral (siviilihautajaiset) is a non-religious funeral ceremony where a secular farewell service replaces the church blessing ceremony. The popularity of secular funerals has grown in Finland as the proportion of non-church members has increased. They offer an alternative that respects the deceased's beliefs and the family's wishes.

Content of the Ceremony

A secular funeral does not include religious elements such as prayers, hymns, or blessing. The ceremony typically includes a speech by the ceremony leader, words of remembrance from family and friends, music, poetry, and possibly a moment of silence. The ceremony can be entirely tailored to the deceased's personality and wishes — for example, nature-themed or music-focused.

Practical Arrangements

A secular funeral is usually organized with the help of a funeral home. The ceremony can be held at a parish chapel (if the parish permits secular events), a separate event venue, or in nature. A free speaker, a Humanist Association ceremony leader, or a family member can serve as the ceremony leader. The cemetery grave plot is granted on the same terms as for church funerals.

Choice of Burial Method

In a secular funeral, the burial method can be casket burial or cremation — the secular ceremony does not affect the burial method itself. Ashes can be placed in an urn grave, memorial grove, or in nature. A memorial reception is held after the ceremony just as in church funerals. More practical guidance can be found in our funeral etiquette guide.